Sex Stories

What are other really people into?




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Sex Stories is a podcast where mostly anonymous guests share the details of their sexual desires, delights, disappointments, discoveries, and dreams.

These respectful, casually explicit, hyper-personal interviews offer a hot mix of inspiration, practical sexy how-to’s, insight into other peoples’ feelings about sex (so dating apps start to make some sense), and give listeners a chance to safely fantasize about future bucket list-worthy sexsplorations.

Listeners report turn-ons while listening (often at work, also go listen to Sex at Work), a lot.

Created & hosted by the happily horny and deeply curious artist/filmmaker Wyoh Lee, who is obsessed with knowing the sexy things humans crave and enjoy and figuring out how to communicate more deliciously around desires of all kinds.

Wyoh’s goal in sharing sex stories and creating Sex Stories is to better understand different emotional experiences of and contexts for sex, to spread examples of how trust and safety are the hottest thing, and to show how talking about it ahead of time really truly is a turn-on.

When we practice prioritizing pleasure over fear of judgement, we can let go of worrying about how to last longer in bed, how to cum with a partner, or if their last partner was bigger or tighter or “better” in any way—but it’s hard to retain a sense of unique specialness in a vacuum, so here is an easy, safe, sexy, listening-oriented community.

When we stay in touch with our desire and our partner and their desire, we have better sex. More connected sex. Safer and more creative and sometimes more vulnerable sex. Hotter sex.

Partners who listen to Sex Stories together report wildly amazing new levels of connection that have led to new phases of joy in their relationships and their sex lives.

Solo listeners report increased feelings of enthusiasm and permission to explore kinky things that had only ever existed in their dreams.

Listeners of all kinds have connected to and LOVED their bodies in brand new ways, and so many happy lovely humans have discovered butt pleasures thanks to the anal normalization that's happening on-pod. So many beautiful buttsluts!

Let’s lead better-laid lives.

Let’s create a world where taking care of each other is the norm.

Let’s smash some shame & make & share sex stories.



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Sex Stories Questions

Ask your partner, see what happens, share a story, repeat.


  • If you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame-o-meter from 1 (shameless!) to 10 (so full of shame), where do you fall right now?

  • What's your sex life like right now? What’s your favorite part?

  • What is “sexy” to you?

  • What is “sex” for you?

  • Did you ever get an explicit health and safety talk or lesson in consent growing up?

  • As an adult, can you give us an example of one time you said a very clear YES to something sexy that led to an awesome experience?

  • What happens to your shame-o-meter when it's time to talk to your partner about safer sex?

  • What’s your ideal way for a safer sex convo to unfold?


  • What is your first sex-related memory?

  • What were your early understandings of what sex was, or what it meant? When do you feel like you really understood what it was?

  • How did the culture, religion, family values or friendships you grew up with influence your relationship to sex?

  • What is the first sexual experience you remember having?

  • When and how did you start touching yourself?

  • When did you start touching other people?

  • What formative experiences stand out in terms of kissing, touching, oral, penetration, or any other forms of erotic energy that were meaningful to your sexual self?

  • What are your kinks? How did you discover them? What are your safety and negotiation practices like?


  • How and how often do you touch yourself now?

  • How have your self-pleasure patterns changed over the years, if at all?

  • What are some of your favorite ways to use your hands on a partner?

  • What are your favorite ways to experience your partner’s hands?

  • What sex toys do you use?


  • What body parts do enjoy performing oral on? What are your moves?

  • What body parts do you enjoy receiving oral on? What are favorite moves from your partner?


  • What kinds of penetration do you enjoy giving and/or receiving?


  • What are ways you love and/or things you like or need to cum?


  • What are your biggest turn-ons?

  • Biggest Turn-offs?

  • What else does your body love?

  • When do you feel most in touch with your body?

  • What makes you feel desired and/or appreciated, sexually?


  • What are your experiences with or fantasies about:

  • sexting?

  • sending or receiving nudes?

  • watching porn?

  • homemade porn?

  • group sex?

  • sex parties?

  • sex clubs?

  • ex dreams?


  • What other fantasies or desires have you explored, or do you want to explore?

  • Future hopes/goals/dreams for your sex life?

  • Any other sexual disasters, triumphs, weird, unexpected, awkward, amazing things you can think of?

  • Any other thoughts on sex in general or your own sex life?

  • If you could go back and give a younger you sex advice, what age(s) would you pick and what would you say?


(view answers in the Private Gallery or on Patreon):

  • If you could go back and give younger you your first sex talk, how would yours have gone?

  • Do you have a sex question for me?