Sex at Work
What do the people who think about sex all day think about sex?
Sex at Work is a series of conversations with people who are working to make the world a sexier, more loving place.
In as much detail as they feel comfy or is relevant, guests share the details of what a career in the sex industry is like:
Tell us your sex-at-work origin story!
What led you to your sexy job?
Are you a sex worker?
What title or labels do you use?
How do you define “sex work”?
What’s your work like?
How is it sexy?
How is it less sexy than one might think?
What do you like best about your job?
What do your boundaries between “professional” and “personal” look like, especially as it relates to your own sex life?
How do you handle communication and boundaries around sex with colleagues, clients or subcontractors?
Is it more implicit or explicit?
What do you do if a boundary needs to be enforced, or a reframe offered?
Sex-at-Work culture-wise, what are you EITHER:
in the process of fine-tuning and experimenting with?
What do you do so awesomely that you wish everyone could learn from you?
What have you learned about social and cultural norms:
that has surprised you?
that you’d like to shift?
that you love?
Since you began this work, what changes have you noticed in any cultural norms related to your corner of the sex industry?
Since you began this work, what changes have you noticed in yourself or your personal life?
If you could wave a magic wand and teach everyone something about sex, what would it be?
What’s the silliest shame-related experience you’ve encountered through your work?
What do you want to celebrate most about your work, right now?
Imagine a Full Service Creativity Resort. Think: a small-ish oasis in the desert that has family-friendly and grownups-only areas, where education about all things art-and-body-related is available, and resources exist to explore ones’ creativity in all ways that are legal and consensual and age-appropriate. If you were in charge of one room—or a whole floor—of this resort, and it’s the [NAME/BRAND] zone, and you have an unlimited budget, what’s the most fun, you-version of this room you can think of, right now?
Want to be a guest?